My hair decision for 2016

Hi all, 

I thought I post a blog on my hair goals for 2016. As you all know that last year, I was a natural hair journey which had there ups and downs. 

Here’s a photo of my hair growth of 2015  

I’m happy with my growth. But in some areas not grown a lot and long in some areas and short in others. My hair is very dry and I have been slacking since my sister’s death. So I plan to do weekly treatments and l.o.c method. I’m still using pure coconut oil, castor oil not black which I really need to invest in and hair mayonnaise is a must which has grown my hair quite a lot .

I’m still taking biotin. But I’m looking in to taking gold crush hair vitamins again or some other form of hair vitamins, which promote fast hair growth.

So my hair decision for 2016 is that I’m going to relax and cut my hair. This is because natural hair is hair work and this is the best my hair grown in years. But I just don’t have time and is hard to comb and to maintain.

I’m considering a low pixie cut, which will be easy to maintain and look after. Also , suits my lifestyle. Also, I feel by cutting my hair, it will grow more healthy and needs tlc and a good cut as I haven’t cut my hair nor trimmed since my big chop.

These are the cuts, I’m in love with at the moment and considering  

The pixie cut is the in thing at the moment. I’m so in love with the pixie cut. I feel if I cut my hair, I’m embarking on some changes and new challenges. 

As coco Chanel says  

I feel this me for 2016 after the year, I’ve had and I know if undo this, the changes I want will come.

So what are your hair goals for 2016?

Are you considering a new look ?


I got a little crush on you 😉

Hi all 

I’m gonna be dropping few post this week and get back into blogging. Like I said in my earlier post all negative is left in 2015 like wastemen, fear etc but I can’t forget my sisters death. It’s all about positivity etc 

So I thought I get my feelings in to this blog. Lately I’ve been feeling good under the circumstances and that . If it wasn’t for my family , strength, faith we wouldn’t be of not got through this difficult time.

Also, my friends and new network of friends. Recently, I got close to a really good male friend. I don’t know what I do without him. He has encouraged me a lot. Help me build on self esteem and confidence. Also, taught me to accept myself for me and he accepts me the way I am and his prayers.

I can always text and be real with him and I’ll always have his back no matter what and he’ll have my back. I have a crush on him and he knows. I told him 🙈 omg

Everyday we are getting close and text and talk. He would text to see if I’m ok morning,day and night. His prayers put a smile on my face.

He’s different to all the other guys I been out with or to the wastemen who have issues, gold diggers or have partner and cheaters aka players and liars.

He’s decent, caring, hardworking and the accent omg that Jamaican accent. I can be real with him and open. He is 43 and I’m 36 going on 37 in the next few months. Age ain’t nothing but a number 

He’s my close friend but I would love more, but our friendship is so tight and close and we don’t wanna spoil it. But said we will see and get to know each other more.

All I can say I have found my dream guy. But gonna stay friends for now and take our time. No need to rush things. Leave it in gods hands as he knows best and has our backs all the time.

So if you was in the situation like me and this guy would you do?

He has said to me he values our friendship ,don’t wanna spoil it and take our time. May be in the future.

So watch this space and that but he’s the one for me. Patience is the key and best things comes to those who waits .

Happy new year and reflections on 2015

Happy new year everyone !

Sorry for not blogging a lot these days. I thought I drop my first blog for 2016.

I’m gonna reflect on my 2015. Well 2015 had its ups and downs. I returned back to college and gain a English qualification. Didn’t find love, than idiots who weren’t serious etc didn’t fulfil my wish to learn to drive. Embarked on a natural hair journey which had its ups and downs.

2015 in October brought my family and I the biggest tragedy and heartache ever. One of my younger sisters’ lost her life in childbirth and never got the chance to met her princess, she was longing and excited for and to met.

Our family link has been broken and our lives won’t be the same again and we don’t know how we are going to get through this. We will tell her princess all about her and bring her up the way she wanted to bring her up. Her daugther suffered brain damage and the hosptial are under investigation for this and we need answers.

Healthy 26 year old woman no health issues just went in to have her baby. But never came home and met her princess. 

This is hard. But with our faith and strength we’ll get through the this.

So 2016, I’m gonna enjoy life and make a life for me and my 3 children. Whatever challenges or situations God has planned for me bring it on as I’m ready for them. 2016 no drama or negativity. Positivity. Don’t need that drama in 2016. I’m leaving all the drama issues and negativity and negative people in 2015 and 2016 all about positivity new vibes etc.

I’m going to conquer the world and fulfil all my goals and dreams like learning to drive.  I’m gonna transform myself and get my pixie cut .im going to live and enjoy my life as you don’t know when judgement day is and by blink of a eyes it’s gone.

2016 go out there and fight and conquer the world and don’t let negativity stop you.

So happy new year everyone 😘